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Sympathy . . . or Superiority?

Sympathy . . . or Superiority?

This blog post won’t paint me in a good light. But that’s okay, because it’s true. And the truth is always good, right?

My Superior Response

Recently I got an email from a young girl asking for my advice. I chuckled inwardly when I read it because it seemed so . . . juvenile. Oh to have problems like that again! I refrained from laughingly sharing her email with someone else (thank goodness!), but that didn’t change my feelings of superiority inside.

God Exposes My Superiority Complex

Oh, I never would have called it superiority. But this morning the Holy Spirit called me out on it as I read Hebrews 4:14–16:

Since then we have a great high priest who has passed through the heavens, Jesus, the Son of God, let us hold fast our confession. For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin. Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.

Our Sympathetic God

These verses encourage us to run toward God’s throne of grace with confidence. Why? Because He’s a God who sympathizes with our weaknesses!

He sympathizes because He’s been there, too. He willingly laid His position aside (as the King of Kings so high, high above us) and became one of us. Actually, He became a servant to us. He spent time with us, listened to us, taught us, washed our dirty feet (and our dirty hearts!), and healed us.

‘Cause He’s Been There

And while He was with us, hell threw every temptation it had to offer directly His way. Hebrews 4:15 tells us Jesus was “tempted as we are, yet without sin.”

What does that have to do with me and my big, fat superiority?

Everything.

God’s Shocking Sympathy

Jesus, too, was tempted just like that young girl was. Like I was. But He didn’t sin in that temptation.

In the past, I’ve been tempted just like that young girl. But I sinned in that temptation. Sympathy should come easy for me, then, right?

Jesus, too, was tempted just like that young girl was. Like I was. But He didn’t sin in that temptation. If the same were true for me, I’d really, really feel superior! Not Him, though. He still sympathizes with our weaknesses, in spite of His perfect record of success.

Turning From Superiority to Sympathy

How quickly I forget that I’m a recipient of His grace. I’ve made it out of that pit—not on my own—but only ’cause Jesus entered my pit for me so I might stand on His shoulders and climb out.

Shame on me for thinking myself superior to any person because His grace has carried me past a particular struggle. Oh for His sympathy in place of my superiority!

Prayers Welcome

Would you pray for me in this? As you can see, I’m a girl who’s still in process, just like you. Good thing for me, Jesus sympathizes with my superiority in spite of His perfect humility.

You, Too?

How about you? Maybe you don’t have girls emailing you for advice about a past struggle. But have you secretly thought you were better than others because you weren’t tempted by what tempted them?

Do you ever chalk up other girls’ problems as just silly drama compared to the challenges you face? Where do you see superiority popping up in your life? And how might Jesus’ sympathy for you change the way you view others’ struggles?

 

Sympathy…or Superiority?” was originally posted on LiesYoungWomenBelieve.com.

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4 Unlikely Places to Find a Great Friend

4 Unlikely Places to Find a Great Friend

 

Where can you find good, wise friends when the pickins’ are slim?

After reading “Cool Friends . . . or Fool Friends?” last week, maybe you wondered, But if I’m choosy and don’t become besties with the “cool fool friends,” where will I find any good friends?

I’m so glad you asked! Here are four unlikely places to find a great friend:

That brother or sister of yours is handcrafted by God and, believe it or not, will one day probably be one of your best friends.

1) At home. I can hear you groaning, “But I hate my brother! He’s so annoying!” Trust me, I get it. Check out “My Annoying Younger Sister . . . and the Evil Ogre Sister!” post for more on the hateful ways I treated my sister when we were growing up.

Here’s the thing, though. That brother or sister of yours is handcrafted by God and, believe it or not, will one day probably be one of your best friends!

In fact, did you know that the Bible says, “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity” (Prov. 17:17)? Part of the reason God gave you siblings is so that you would have someone to walk through the peaks and valleys of life with!

High school and college friends will move far away, but you’ll keep seeing your family on birthdays and holidays. Why not begin to not just survive in the same house without killing them, but actually . . . befriend them? (By the way, this applies to your parents as well as your siblings!)

2) At church. So they’re different from you, those people you sit next to Sunday after Sunday. Fact is, you’ll be spending a lot more than holidays and birthdays with them—you’ll be living with them . . . forever! In Christ they’re family now—a tighter bond even than your own flesh-and-blood relatives.

Forever is a long time. Why not learn how to get along with them now? I wish I’d understood years ago that friends don’t have to be your age. Read “An Unlikely Friendship” to hear about a dear friend of mine who is thirty (yes, thirty!) years older than me.

PS: Did you know you should seek out friends who are older than you to learn from (Titus 2:3–5)? Also, don’t forget that you’re an “older woman” to someone. Do you have any younger friends who can learn from your example?

3) In the Book. Proverbs 7:4 tells us to “Say to wisdom, ‘You are my sister,’ and call insight your intimate friend.” The Word of Truth (another name for the Bible) is chock full of wisdom. Consider it your dear friend, and it will lead you well. Are you spending time with and listening to this friend?

4) In God. Did you know that God has friends?! He called Abraham His friend (2 Chron. 20:7; Isa. 41:8), and He talked with Moses face to face, the way good friends talk (Ex. 33:11). Abraham and Moses weren’t His only friends. You can be His friend, too!

Believe in the One who sacrificed more at the cross for you than any friend ever will, and you will find Him to be the best friend you’ll ever know.

Psalm 25:14 says, “The friendship of the LORD is for those who fear him, and he makes known to them his covenant.” Jesus says, “You are my friends if you do what I command you” (John 15:14). And what does He command?

The secret is found in James 2:23: “‘Abraham believed God, and it was counted to him as righteousness’—and he was called a friend of God.” Believe in the One who sacrificed more at the cross for you than any friend ever will, and you will find Him to be the best friend you’ll ever know. He will never leave you, never let you down, never stop loving you.

I’d love to hear from you. Which of these four friends are friends of yours?

 

4 Unlikely Places to Find a Great Friend” was originally posted on LiesYoungWomenBelieve.com

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Cool Friends . . . or Fool Friends?

Cool Friends . . . or Fool Friends?

 

Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm (Prov. 13:20).

I’ll never forget the fifth grade talent show. Samantha Gilman offered to turn the pages while I played a difficult classical piano piece. But I was ashamed to sit next to her. She was a Christian; she was a friend. But she wasn’t cool, and she didn’t fit in at school.

Truth was, I wasn’t all that cool, so I didn’t want to be associated with her. I wanted to become more cool, not less! So I told Samantha no, I’d be just fine.

And fine I was—for a few measures. But then, just as I was turning the page, my book crashed down on the keys, interrupting my performance with a jarring bang. So much for my cool factor.

The notes swam as I finished the rest of the piece through my tears. Why oh why hadn’t I gratefully accepted Samantha’s help? Oh yeah . . . I was concerned about how she would make me look.

Instead of girls like Samantha, I wanted the “cool” kids as friends. Only problem was, the “cool” kids were also what the Bible calls . . . “fools.” They didn’t fear God, and they weren’t looking out for my best interests.

One “friend” convinced me to date a non-Christian guy behind my parents’ backs. Another “cool fool” sneaked a pair of short shorts to school for me to wear without my parents knowing about it.

How to Spot a Cool Fool

Here are just a few ways you can spot a “cool fool.”

A cool fool:

Choosing Your Direction

Whether you realize it or not, your friends are taking you somewhere. They’re either leading you closer to God or further away from Him. So which direction are you headed? What do you look for in your friends?

Take it from me: Don’t think more highly of yourself than you should. Receive help from the “Samanthas” in your life, and steer clear of the cool fools.

 

Cool Friends . . . or Fool Friends?” was originally posted on LiesYoungWomenBelieve.com

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A Return to the Book


I’ve drifted from the Book.

Oh, I still read it nearly every day. I even make sure it’s on top of my stack of books, out of reverence for it (or is it just habit now?).

But my hunger and reverence for it has waned. There are a myriad of reasons for that, but here’s a big one.

As you probably know, Christians disagree about how we hear from God today. I have Gospel-believing friends on both sides of the fence—some who claim to be led by God’s Spirit as they listen to Him throughout their day, and other Gospel-believing friends who claim that the Word of God is the only way God speaks to His people today.

As a communicator, I’ve had to learn how to carefully nuance how I talk about hearing from God. That, for a girl who’s naturally more of a feeler than a thinker, and more gray than black and white, has felt stifling and rigid at times.

It has been confusing, too. Which is it? Is it the Spirit who leads us . . . or is it the Word?

This past Sunday, my pastor preached on the Word of God. This stood out,

The further I move from the written Word of God, the less confidence I can have that I’ve heard a word from God.

After his sermon, I went back over my notes and looked up all the Scriptures (one of my favorite Sunday “rhythms”), and I stumbled on 2 Peter 1:21 where we’re told how the Book was written,

No prophecy was ever produced by the will of man, but men spoke from God as they were carried along by the Holy Spirit.

Oh, yea! I was reminded that the Word IS the Spirit’s personally-breathed-out words. Oh to treasure and revere it more.

Then this morning, my ears perked up when Nancy Guthrie unpacked Nehemiah 8:1,

All the people [50,000 of them] gathered as one man into the square before the Water Gate. And they told Ezra the scribe to bring the Book of the Law of Moses that the Lord had commanded Israel.

Picture Times Square on New Years Eve, except this crowd was gathered to hear a book read rather than to watch a ball drop. We don’t know for sure, but maybe one piped up, “Bring out the Book!” And another and then another pitched in until the whole crowd cried, “Bring out the Book! Bring out the Book!”

Oh, that God might raise up women in our day who are hungry for the book,” Nancy said.

Yes, Lord. I want to return to the Book. I want to be a woman of the Book. Not a rigid, puffed up woman, but a God-knowing, God-fearing, God-hearing woman.

I still don’t have all the answers, but this I do know. The Spirit still speaks today through His personal, living words in that Book.

And I am listening.

A Return to the Book” was originally posted on TrueWoman.com

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Redefining a Crummy Day

Redefining a Crummy Day

 

Exhibit A, Your Crummy Day

“How was your day?” your mom hollers from the laundry room as she separates towels from underwear, sheets from jeans.

“Crummy,” you snap as you pillage the fridge for . . . well, something more than mayonnaise, a bag of carrots, or a carton of eggs. You’ve got to be kidding, you mutter under your breath, turning to the cupboards.

Exhibit B, A Better Day

“How’s it going?” your friend asks, her voice muffled from inside her locker, searching for her chemistry book.

“Great,” you exclaim as you turn to her, a giant smile spreading across your face. “This has been the best day ever!”


Have you ever stopped to think about what makes a good day . . . good? Is it an A on your World History quiz or a Facebook “like” from that guy who’s never far from your mind?

How about a crummy day? Is it waking up ten minutes before the bus comes or spilling orange juice on your favorite shirt?

Well, what if . . .

What if a good day has nothing to do with your circumstances?

What if a good day is waking up alive?

What if a good day is knowing you’re never alone, no matter how lonely you feel?

What if a good day is remembering that the best is yet to come?

Most of the time, our definition of a crummy day isn’t really all that crummy in light of God’s goodness to us.

What if a good day is not based on how much you accomplish, but on how much Jesus accomplished for you on the cross?

What if a good day is knowing that every crummy circumstance that crosses your path is something God promises to work together for your good and His glory?

What if a good day isn’t attention from a guy or affirmation from your boss, but the steady, constant love of your heavenly Father?

What if . . . what if this day isn’t all that crummy after all?

This is the day the LORD has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it (Ps. 118:24).

(Interesting timing . . . just as I was polishing off this post, I heard of a friend’s son who lost thousands of dollars after unknowingly buying a stolen vehicle. Turns out there are crummy days. Really crummy days. I don’t mean to downplay that. I just think that most of the time, our definition of a crummy day isn’t really all that crummy in light of God’s goodness to us.)

How about you? How do you usually define a “good” or a “crummy” day?

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Twenty Things Christians CAN’t Do

Twenty Things Christian's CAN't Do

 

I don’t know about you, but I used to think being a Christian was more about what you couldn’t do than what you could do. Here are twenty things that made my list:

Twenty Things Christians CAN’t Do

  1. Let non-Christians know that their life is hard.
  2. Be angry.
  3. Be anxious.
  4. Feel depressed.
  5. Speak their minds.
  6. Live alone.
  7. Drink.
  8. Dance.
  9. Do what they want to do.
  10. Change churches.
  11. Come out on top.
  12. Rest and relax.
  13. Wear cute stylish clothes.
  14. Watch movies.
  15. Save money. (Don’t Christians need to give all it away?)
  16. Turn down a guy ’cause they’re not attracted to him.
  17. Be introverted.
  18. Be sarcastic.
  19. Trust God to lead through their desires and make decisions based on them.
  20. Eat dessert first. (Kidding!)

What a skewed perspective I had! Tell me, does that list sound like:

  1. Being led by the Spirit of God, or . . .
  2. Living under the law?

Here’s a snapshot of the book of Galatians to help you figure it out:

A person is not justified by works of the law but through faith in Jesus Christ (2:16).

I died to the law, so that I might live to God. . . . If righteousness were through the law, then Christ died for no purpose (vv. 19, 21).

Let me ask you only this: Did you receive the Spirit by works of the law or by hearing with faith? Are you so foolish? Having begun by the Spirit, are you now being perfected by the flesh? (3:2–3).

For freedom Christ has set us free; stand firm therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery (5:1).

But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh (v. 16).

If you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law (v. 18).

My Twenty Things Christians CAN’t Do List was all about life under the law. And I have a sneaking suspicion I’m not the only one who’s lived most of my life under the law’s curse.

C’mon. Add to my list. What do you think Christians can’t do? What do others around you think Christians can’t do? Do you think we can reach fifty?

Ready, set, go!

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Twenty Things Christians CAN’t Do” was originally posted on LiesYoungWomenBelieve.com

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Take the “Would You Rather” Quiz

Take the "Would You Rather" Quiz

I wish you could meet my sister. In addition to being a downright awesome friend and woman of God, she has a great sense of humor. Growing up, she’d often ask outlandish questions like:

Would you rather only eat green olives dipped in mayonnaise for the rest of your life, or would you rather never bathe or shower again?

Her questions were always so "out there." Both options seemed hilariously . . . horrible!

Today let’s play a more obvious version of "Would you rather." Here are four questions you shouldn’t even have to think twice about:

  1. Would you rather:
    1. Live in Ahwaz, Iran (the city filled with the dirtiest air in the world), or would you rather . . .
    2. Live in Whitehorse, Yukon, Canada (boasting some of the cleanest air you’ll find of any city in the world according to the World Health Organization)?
  2. Would you rather:
    1. Fill your Nalgene bottle with water from Lake Karachay in Russia (the world’s most polluted spot thanks to the Soviet Union dumping nuclear waste from their largest nuclear production facilities into the lake from 1951–1953), or would you rather . . .
    2. Fill your Nalgene bottle with tap water from Switzerland (the country known for the best tap water in the world)?
  3. Would you rather:
    1. Buy raw meat from a third-world country market with flies covering its carcass, or would you rather . . .
    2. Buy organic meat from your local Whole Foods store?
  4. Would you rather:
    1. Stay in America’s dirtiest hotel room (complete with bed bugs, of course!), or would you rather . . .
    2. Stay in the cleanest hotel room America had to offer?

I bet you chose "b" each time. All of us want what’s most pure (by the way, "pure" means "clean" and "uncontaminated"). With that in mind, I have a big question for you. Are you ready?

Why do we place such a high value on pure water, pure air, pure food, pure everything . . . but we don’t wholeheartedly pursue pure lives?

I’d love to hear your thoughts.

In the meantime, here are some questions you might not answer quite so easily . . .

  1. Would you rather:
    1. Act and appear pure to others, or would you rather . . .
    2. Actually grow in purity from the inside-out? (We’re talking pure thoughts and pure desires that that no one but God can see.)
  2. Would you rather:
    1. Spend fifteen minutes watching your favorite show that’s "not that bad," or would you rather . . .
    2. Spend fifteen minutes reading God’s Word?
  3. Would you rather:
    1. Move your knee a little closer so it brushes your crush’s knee, or would you rather . . .
    2. Move your knee away so it doesn’t brush your crush’s knee, even when you’re tempted otherwise?
  4. Would you rather:
    1. Rely on "good deeds" to make you feel clean and pure before a Holy God, or would you rather . . .
    2. Agree with Him that even your "good deeds" are 100 percent polluted and trust only in Christ’s purity and cleanness on your behalf?

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2 Reasons God Wants Your Money

Two Reasons God Wants Your Money

Last week we asked the question, Why does God want your money? We made the important clarification that it’s not your money but God’s money. Now that we’ve got that out of the way, let’s get back to the original question:

Why does God want your (er, His!) money?

Here are just two reasons from Matthew 6:19–21:

"Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal, but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also” (emphasis added).

When we go, we’ll leave everything behind. Everything except the money and stuff we’ve invested in God’s forever kingdom.

  1. God wants your money because He wants you to have treasures that’ll last. As in, forever.
  2. My sweet neighbor has let me watch two of her births. Elijah came out clutching a flat-screen TV, and Mercy came out with a sparkling pair of twenty-four-carat diamond earrings. (Kidding!) They both came out naked and empty-handed. No surprise, right? Paul says it like this in 1 Timothy 6:7:

    We brought nothing into the world, and we cannot take anything out of the world (emphasis added).

    Have you ever asked your mom what you brought into this world the day you were born? Probably not, because you already know the answer. Nada. Zippo. Nothing.

    But have you ever stopped to think about the fact that when you leave this world (whether it’s through death or through Jesus’ soon return for you), you will bring nothing with you? Nada. Zippo. Nothing.

    I like how John Piper says it:

    There are no U-Hauls behind hearses.

    In Matthew 6:19, Jesus isn’t saying it’s wrong to store up treasures; He just doesn’t want us to be stupid about it. We can’t take our favorite possessions or clothes with us (sorry to disappoint!). When we go, we’ll leave everything behind. Everything except the money and stuff we’ve invested in God’s forever kingdom.

    Randy Alcorn says it like this, "You can’t take it with you—but you can send it on ahead." He continues in his fantastic little book The Treasure Principle:

    Jesus has a treasure mentality. He wants us to store up treasures! He’s just telling us to stop storing them in the wrong place and start storing them in the right place!

    God wants you to have treasures that’ll actually last—as in forever.

  3. God wants your money because above all, He wants your heart.
    There’s another reason God wants your (ahem, His!) money.

    "Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also" (Matt. 6:21).

    What if God is really after your heart? And what if the way to your heart is through . . . your wallet?

    As I read The Treasure Principle, I learned that 15 percent of everything Jesus says in the Bible relates to money—more than His teachings on heaven and hell combined!

    Why does He care so much about money? It’s ’cause He knows that wherever our money goes, our heart goes.

    More than your money, He’s after your heart (Matt. 15:7–9). He wants you to share a relationship with Him that’s closer than any other relationship you have on this entire planet. (And yes, when that happens, He’ll also have your money.)

    Don’t get me wrong. This isn’t payback. God didn’t sacrifice His life for you so you could pay Him back (as if you could!). Your salvation was a free, lavish gift. Don’t pull out your wallet to pay Him back. Give out of joy and gratefulness for how He gave to you, and watch your love for Him skyrocket as you do. Because where your money goes, there your heart goes.

    You know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sake he became poor, so that you by his poverty might become rich (2 Cor. 8:9).

    2 Reasons God Wants Your Money” was originally posted on LiesYoungWomenBelieve.com

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Why Does God Want My Money?

Why Does God Want My Money?

God wants your money. But not for the reasons you think.

He’s not poor.

He’s not a mooch.

He’s not looking to take, take, take from you.

He’s not anti-money, and He doesn’t think the poor are more holy than the middle class.

Before I tell you why God wants your money, I need to back up.

Something is terribly, terribly wrong with the subject line of this post. Read it again. Did you catch it?

Nope, I didn’t misspell any words or use incorrect punctuation. I did make a wrong assumption, though.

As much as it feels like my money, God teaches that the money in my purse, the money in my bank account, that paycheck I just received . . . is actually His money. Here are just a couple places we learn this from God’s Word:

The earth is the LORD’s, and everything in it, the world, and all who live in it (Ps. 24:1, emphasis added).

If that’s not clear enough, how about this one from Haggai 2:8:

"The silver is mine and the gold is mine," declares the LORD Almighty.

(I know you don’t buy things with silver or gold, but this passage is talking about currency. Substitute "silver" and "gold" with "dollars" and "cents.")

Before we go any further, we need to ask God to reset our minds so we realize it’s not our money; it’s His money.

We don’t own the money stuffed away in our top dresser drawer; God has entrusted us with delivering His money to those who need it most.

Picture it like this: You buy a sweet gift for your friend’s birthday. Since she just moved across the country, you wrap it up and give it to the FedEx guy to deliver to her. But instead of delivering the package, he takes it home and breaks open the present for himself!

Obviously, this guy doesn’t understand his job. He’s just the delivery guy!

Did you know that you and I are like that FedEx employee? We don’t own the money stuffed away in our top dresser drawer; God has entrusted us with delivering His money to those who need it most.

Now that we’ve cleared that important misunderstanding up, let’s get back to the original question:

Why does God want my (ahem, His!) money?

First, though, I’d love to hear from you. Is this news that the money in your purse actually belongs to God? Or have you already been thinking and living like it’s His?

Love this post? Share it! Here’s a tweet you can totally steal from us: 

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Why Does God Want My Money?” was originally posted on LiesYoungWomenBelieve.com

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Is a House in the Hood on Your Bucket List? (Part 2)

Is a House in the Hood on Your Bucket List? (Part 2)

If you met Liza, you might think she’s an "ordinary" twenty-something girl. She works as a web developer by day and savors coffee and LIVE music by night. But if you spent some time with her, you’d quickly realize she’s not so ordinary. Yesterday we talked about Liza’s surprising bucket list addition: living in the hood. Once you’ve read part 1, catch the rest of her story here.

. . . I knew it was time to go live with these people and make God’s love real to them. All that was left to do was find a "hood."

I started looking right where I lived, and the name "Keller Park Church" kept coming up. So on a cold Sunday in February, I drove to the west side of South Bend, Indiana, and slipped into the back of a small church sanctuary. I immediately noticed the people there—all ages, classes, and colors. There was something different about this place.

After the service, I briefly spoke to a woman who loves Jesus and pours her life out for the kids in Keller Park. In the course of conversation, she said:

Liza, we were right where you are three years ago. We wanted Jesus to be more than just the dessert [on a comfy, self-sufficient life]. We wanted Him to be the whole meal. So we sold almost everything and moved into an 800-square-foot house.

She told stories of buying one kiddie pool, then two, then three to host all the kids in the summer. She talked about tutoring, youth group, Bible studies, and doing life with your neighbors.

I started swinging by the neighborhood to look at the people that lived there (creeper!), pray, and ask God if I was supposed to be involved. A love for the people was developing, and the area started to feel like home. I told God I would pursue living here and expect Him to redirect if this was the wrong way to go.

He directed all right.

Signpost #1: My Parents Say . . .

I knew it was time to involve my parents. A few weeks later, I called Dad and said, "Is Mom around? You may want to put this on speakerphone." They’re semi-used to me announcing radical, ridiculous, and passionate ideas, but still . . . I know they get nervous when I want to talk to both of them at the same time.

If you want to be truly filled, set your wants on nothing less than God Himself.

God had brought me to a place of wanting to completely honor them in this process. I was totally prepared for them to say what any loving parent would be tempted to say, "No. It’s too dangerous."

I told them everything. In one breath. Then I stopped. There was a few seconds of silence.

Then Dad said, "We think you should do it. We don’t really have any concerns at all."

"Liza, the Christian life isn’t about being safe," Mom added.

"Yeah, in fact, do they need more house-parents?"

I didn’t know what to say! Their full support of what I’m doing frees me in incredible ways. Picture the Kentucky Derby, when the horses spring from the chutes. That was me. I knew then that I was on the right track, and I could run. But I didn’t quite know which lane I should be in yet.

Signpost #2: My Friends Offer Me . . .

On March 16, a group of friends were gathered in a living room. With coffee in hand, we were telling stories of how we were seeing God working in and around us.

A friend’s husband shared how God had been challenging him to use his resources to build God’s kingdom here on earth. He wanted to build as much kingdom here as possible, so we all dreamed together about ways that could happen.

Later I shared, "I’d just love to live in a big house in the hood where lots of people could find Jesus. A place where we could house people that needed a safe place and have a dozen kids around the table every night and play soccer in the backyard."

We all rejoiced in the different things God was doing and went our separate ways. The next day, I got a text. It was my friend’s husband. "Could you show me around this neighborhood?" As we drove around the neighborhood, he said, "We want to equip you to build the kingdom of God here. We want to buy you a house. Pick one out."

What?!? Buy a house?! I have never been so humbled or in awe of the Body of Christ coming together and everyone getting serious about what God has called them to do.

That’s when I realized, God is serious about this. He means business in this neighborhood, and I better get serious about it, too. It’s time to stop dipping my toe in the water to see if it’s cold. Of course it’s cold. Jump in anyway. Because He is worthy.

This doesn’t feel like a sacrifice at all. I am in awe of a God who weaves His purposes and our surrendered desires together so perfectly. In turn, it’s only appropriate to fall on our knees in worship and give Him all the scraps of our lives. 

I feel like a kid who just got a pony for my birthday. I’ve dreamed of it, but never quite expected it.

cannot believe we get to do this. And it’s not the stuff; it’s God Himself and His heart and sending us out as His personal ambassadors and involving us in His grand plan.

Caring about what He cares about is blessed freedom from yourself and caring so much about things that don’t pay up on their promises for fulfillment and happiness. If you want to be truly filled, set your wants on nothing less than God Himself.

"Why do you spend your money for that which is not bread, and your labor for that which does not satisfy? Listen diligently to me, and eat what is good, and delight yourselves in rich food [the profuseness of spiritual joy]" (Isa. 55:2).

(Hey, girls. Paula here.) Did you catch what Liza said?

Caring about what God cares about is blessed freedom from yourself and caring so much about things that don’t pay up on their promises for fulfillment and happiness.

That’s why I shared Liza’s story with you—to spark your imagination for how God might multiply your life. Yes, yours! Oh, I know you feel ordinary. But God’s always used "little" people to do great big things as they rely on His mighty power.

God made you for so much more than snagging that cute guy’s attention. It doesn’t mean you’ll write a book or live in the "hood"—God has a unique plan just for you!

How can you begin to bless others today with the talents He’s given you?

Is a House in the Hood on Your Bucket List? (Part 2)” was originally posted on LiesYoungWomenBelieve.com

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